Veteran's Day.

Typically this is a celebration of those who have lain down their lives to defend our rights of freedom, equality, and democracy. Strategically placed after an election, it is a good reminder that whatever party with which we claim affiliation, our loyalty is to America as a country. Both candidates stressed that in their concession and acceptance speeches. Obama even went so far as to say the word "gay" in his first speech as president-elect. And I will confess, I have a cautious optimism that change is truly coming.

My father and grandfather both served in the military. They sacrificed time with their families to serve our country and risk their lives for the ideals of our nation. As straight men, they could openly acknowledge their families without fear. LGBT service members must deny and hide the people they value, support, and take comfort with. Or they will lose their right to serve. LGBT military veteran's are hidden behind policies of fear and prejudice, making it difficult to publically honor their sacrifices and service.

Groups like Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN) are working to change this. But until they do, I am going to honor the people in our community who have made incredible sacrifices, sometimes even their lives, by the simple and powerful act of being out. The transgender and leather men and women who started the Stonewall riots. The young transgender woman who was murdered in Greely just this summer. They are our fallen. They are our heroes. Until we can openly and honestly be part of the larger community, my flags will fly for those who stand on our front lines. 

Please let me know who you honor as a hero of the LGBT movement. Let us honor and celebrate those who have gone before, as we work to create a better world for our children -- literal and figurative.